Was getting it a positive experience?

Lily: It was uncomfortable at first, but after a few online Google searches and articles, I would say I had a pretty positive experience.

Zara: I would say it was a strange but positive experience. I felt like I explored a new way to pleasure myself and I found it on my own. 

Stacey: It felt empowering for me. Knowing I can have my O’s anytime I want it is fun. Although when my mom found out about it, there was few bantering and discussion, nonetheless, she was pretty sex-positive about it.

What was your first adult toy and how was your first time using it?

Emma: I got vibrator as my first toy and I remembered the vibrations were a little too strong for me. I wish I had the magic wand where I have options for intensities and have a handle for control, you know.

Zara: I got dildo as my first toy and it was a gift. We tried it and it felt cool and different.

Stacey: Mine was a rabbit vibrator, in purple. The first time was exciting and I remembered worrying that I won’t enjoy sex with a partner anymore. I realized I’m worried for nothing.

How do you feel about enjoying sex since you started using sex toys?

Lily: Well, toys are good but I enjoy sex more when I’m with a partner. Nothing beats a real live person. We haven’t tried using one in bed though.

Zara: I’d say I enjoy both with or without a toy. My partner gives a different feeling and pleasure toys also give me different kind of feelings, you know. They can both be amazing experiences.

Emma: It depends. On my single days, I enjoyed having sex toys to help me get off every night. When I had a partner, we use them sparingly to spice up routines or when there’s a special occasion. I’d say sex was way better if you have a partner and toy combined.

How does your partner feel about your sex toys?

Zara: My first toy was a gift from a boyfriend. I’d say men do not mind at all. Had partners who are curious but nothing negative reactions, though.

Stacey: Mine didn’t care and thought it was hot.

Emma: My current boyfriend is very supportive. Actually, my recent one is a cloned penis of him. It was hilarious and I find it sweet it doesn’t intimidate him.

What would you recommend for a first adult toy?

Lily: I’ve come across a discreet rabbit vibrator with purple colour. It’s slim and non-intimidating.

Zara: I think if a woman does not know where the right spots are, I suggest she get a vaginal or clitoral stimulator. Let these wonders do the work for her.

Stacey: I would recommend something simple and easy to operate vibrator. Then figure out what works for them and find a toy that does that.

Emma: The magic wand. It’s a classic toy and non-intimidating plus, the controls and speed can be adjusted.

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